1. Build Anticipation
- Arousal starts outside the bedroom. Flirty texts, whispers, teasing touches, or compliments can get her in the mood long before anything physical happens.
2. Focus on Foreplay
- Rushing straight to penetration often doesnโt work. Kissing, caressing, and exploring her erogenous zones (neck, ears, inner thighs, lower back) will heighten her pleasure.
3. Understand What She Likes
- Every woman is different. Pay attention to her reactionsโmoans, body language, and breathing changesโto find out what she enjoys.
4. Use Your Hands & Mouth
- Oral stimulation and manual techniques are often more effective than penetration alone. The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endingsโknowing how to stimulate it properly is key.
5. Rhythm & Pressure Matter
- Consistent, moderate pressure and a steady rhythm are usually more effective than switching things up too fast. Let her guide you.
6. Encourage Communication
- Ask her what she likes in a sexy, non-awkward way:
โDo you like this?โย orย โTell me what feels best.โ
This helps you improve while making her feel comfortable.
7. Mental Stimulation is Key
- Arousal isnโt just physicalโitโs psychological. Engaging in eye contact, dirty talk, or even roleplay can heighten her pleasure.
8. Be Patient & Attentive
- The best lovers arenโt necessarily the fastest. Women take longer to warm up than men, so patience and attentiveness lead to stronger, more satisfying orgasms.
